2008/06/24

Top 5 Benefits of Home Organization

Top 5 Benefits of Home Organization

You can change your life just by getting your home organized.
Let's take a look at five areas of your life that will improve
if you just organize your home.

1. Improved relationships This one is probably the biggest one.
Think about all of the fights that you have with your spouse or
significant other about your home organization issues. Perhaps
the problem is that mail is tossed on the kitchen table each
day. Maybe it is that you can never find the car keys when it is
time to leave. Consider the arguments with your children about
schoolwork that gets put in the entryway or kitchen counter.
Organizing your home and getting your spouse and kids on board
can have a significant impact in the quality of your
relationships with them. I have found that less yelling and more
quality time with my daughter is the biggest benefit of home
organization for me.

2. Better health Chronic stress over a long period of time can
lead to significant health issues. Some ways that your body
shows stress is: headaches, neck and shoulder tension,
backaches, and upset stomach (source: webmd.com). Take an
inventory. How many of these health issues do you have in your
life on a repeated basis? It could be that they are linked to
the state of disorganization in your home. Think about all of
the home organization challenges that you have right now. Does
just thinking about them have you tensing up? Think about how
much better you will feel just by taking some time to organize
your home.

3. More free time This one goes hand-in-hand with number 5 (more
money). Consider the amount of time that you waste each day
looking for things in your home. That missing sock, those jeans
your daughter loves that you can't seem to find anywhere, not to
mention the car keys that get lost more times than you care to
remember. Have you ever stopped to really take an inventory of
the sheer amount of time that you spend looking for things? Use
home organization to help you get that time back. At that point,
you can do things that you want to do.

4. More space in your home Because part of every home
organization project is getting rid of stuff, having more space
in your home is a natural result. If you're tripping over the
stuff that you have in your home right now because it doesn't
have a place to live in your space, getting your home organized
will "create" space in your home that you never knew even
existed. Just getting rid of the things you don't want or need
anymore can create a wonderful new energy in your home and in
your life.

5. More money If you own your own business, this may be the
biggest benefit of home organization for you. How much do you
make in an hour? For the sake of illustration, let's say that
you make $30 per hour. How much time do you spend in a day
looking for your keys, your checkbook, the shoes to match that
outfit, etc? Again, for the purpose of illustration, let's say
you spend 30 minutes per day. So you not organizing your home is
costing you $15 per day, $105 per week, $420 per month, and
$5,040 per year. Pretty significant, isn't it? So a little home
organization could potentially save you over $5,000 every year.

Author: Jill Borash

2008/06/20

Why you need to be Home Business Owner

We all have our own tastes, styles and preferences when it comes to how we
dress, style our hair, even what we drive, and one of the great things
about running a business from the comfort of home is that we can be
exactly who we are with no need to impress anyone.
 
Like you, I have personal preferences.  I love the fact that I can work in
my PJs during the early hours of the day while I coach overseas clients,
and comfortable gym clothes or shorts and a T-shirt during the day.
 
It’s great that working from home gives us this freedom to dress as we
choose, but it’s also important to recognize that this is where it stays -
at home.
 
When you’re out in the community or meeting with clients or prospects, put
your personal preferences aside and shift your thinking to image
management.
 
Whether it’s fair or not, image is critical. How someone perceives you is
going to determine whether or not they will do business with you.
 
Psychologists have learned that most people will förm an impression of you
in the first four minutes and that 80 percent of that impression is based
on nonverbal data.
 
What you say has very little impact compared to your visual appearance.
 
Just like changing packaging for a product can mean the difference between
boom or bust, the same can be applied to your physical packaging.
 
When I met my accountant for the first time, I was stunned.  He came out
of his office in his socks, his shirt was hanging out of his pants and he
had no tie.  His hair was disheveled and he looked like he had just
wrestled a bear.
 
The first thing that may come to mind is he was having an afternoon cavort
with his assistant, but he had a glass window on one side of his office
and several support staff surrounding his workspace, so I gathered this
was his customary work attire.
 
Most of what he said to me traveled in one ear and out the other because I
was too busy trying to tame the battle going on in my head ...
 
“If he cares that little about his appearance and is that sloppy in his
own business, why would he be any different with my finances?”
 
“Laurie, your colleague recommended him and said he did good work, that’s
got to count for something.”
 
This internal battle dominated our meeting and I left with a pit in my
stomach.
 
In the months that followed, I stayed on top of him like a wild dog on a
slab of meat.  I didn’t trust his judgment or quality of work. I watched
every entry he made like a hawk and double-checked everything he did.
 
I eventually brought the relationship to an end and transferred my
business to another accountant.
 
Maybe it was shallow and terribly unfair, but the fact remains --
appearance does have a major impact on business relationships.
 
I couldn’t get past my first impression or the subsequent impressions as I
continued to visit his office, and if I didn’t call and ask for something,
or put a deadline on it, I don’t know if it would have been done.
 
His poor professional image translated to substandard përformance and
unfortunately, the two are often connected, and that’s where our
perceptions and judgments come into play.
 
An eternal truth in business is, you will succeed based on what is, not on
what it should be.
 
Physical appearance and its impact on business success has been tested and
measured and you can try it out for yourself to demonstrate.
 
One day, dress casual for meeting prospects and arrive in your aging
pick-up truck. The next day, wear a business suit and complement it with
accessories like a good quality pen, briefcase and your newer model car.
 
You’ll notice a remarkable difference in the results you produce.
 
You’ll also notice that you’re treated with more respect, courtesy and
receive much better service and response than you are when dressed in your
“at home” business clothes.
 
The importance of personal packaging is a fact of business life.  It may
seem unfair or superficial, but the fact remains -- to resist, deny or
ignore it would be disastrous to your success.
 
Take a few moments to reflect on how you’re presenting yourself to the
world. Is there room for improvement? If so, make a change and test it.
I’m certain you’ll be impressed by the results.

Origin Author:  Laurie Hayes

12 Easy Ways to Organize your Home Life

12 Easy Ways to Organize your  Home Life

I admit it! Sometimes I'm overwhelmed by the seemingly endless  streams of paperwork. Emails I want to keep, Ezines or sections of them, ideas I found on the Internet, school papers, notes of ideas that popped into my head as I was waiting to have a tooth  filled, newspaper clippings ... EEEK! I would file and file and  file and then forgot where that article was that I needed to  complete the project that was due last Thursday!

I have been an avid list-maker all my life out of necessity,  juggling a 9 to 5 work life, family time, a home business and  taking care of two houses; as well as having a number of hobbies
such as cartooning and fine art, clothing design and creation,  crafts and ballroom dancing (at one point in my life even being  a competitive ballroom dancer for 5 years as well as an
assistant disk jockey for parties). (no stress!)

For all of you super-busy people I have put together some handy  hints on getting your life in order and keeping your sanity.

1) Notables: Keep a small notebook and pen handy, wherever you  are, to jot down ideas or appointments or things to do instead  of trying to remember them later on.

2) Telephonery: Set a time limit to each phone call and make  sure you tell your caller. That way you save yourself the stress  of trying to end the phone call and it also helps the caller to
condense the information they want you to hear.

3) In Waiting Use waiting time at the dentist, meeting with your boss or while waiting on your roast to cook to catch up on reading or planning, or use the time to tidy up, filing or other
tasks.

4) Help Wanted: Be sure to offer praise to a subordinate, co-worker or to a member of the family for any effort you've noticed - they'll be happy to help you when you're bogged down.

5) Don't Put It Off! If you procrastinate you'll only get  stressed out when you think about that hateful "to do" item on your list. You'll blow it out of proportion in your mind and it'll become almost impossible to accomplish. Make sure you tackle the largest or most disliked job first, dividing it up into manageable tasks, then the other jobs will be a breeze!

6) Control Bug Delegate the tasks you have no time for or team  up with someone who can help you. (see tip #4!)

7) Group Effort Save time and footwork by collecting everything  to bring with you to complete errands or to distribute in each  room of the house instead of making too many trips. Make a fast  list while planning out your route and be sure to plan each stop  along the way so you don't have to backtrack and lose time.

8) Schedule Fun Time! Make sure you include some personal time  for YOU. Allot some time in your agenda - make an appointment  for yourself and keep it, even if it's only a leisurly 20 minute  bubble bath or a 15 minute walk in the fresh spring air!

9) Space Freebies Go through any old unneeded files to free up  space in your filing system.

10) Once and Only Once Each piece of paper should be handled  only once. Read it and either file it, redirect it to someone  else, schedule it or toss it. Don't add it to an ever-ending
pile on your desk in hopes that you'll get to it eventually.

11) Post-Master Use sticky notes to write errands needed to be done. Stick them to your front door to remind you as you're headed out.

12) Systems Engineer Too much time is wasted everyday on  searching for things. Find a system that works for you and your  lifestyle and apply it. Use it religiously and you'll find new
time slots you thought you never had!

Author: Heather Diodati

Dad/Mom, do You Have The Time?

Dad/Mom, do You Have The Time?

How often do we hear the complaint in the home  “I haven’t got time” ?

“I haven’t got time to explain it to you, son" 
“I haven’t got time to discuss that. You will just have to accept my word for it.”
“I didn’t have time to prepare for this meeting.”
“I can’t stop for lunch. I have too much to do.”

You must have heard every one of these statements at some time or another. You have probably made some of them yourself. And  every one of them is a result of failure on someone’s part to organize their time correctly.

Time is a resource like any other and it must be managed. If it is wasted, it is gone forever. Once it has been used, it cannot be re-used. It is finite and limited. You cannot make more of
it, but you can use it better. This is about your family, please care of about it.


2008/06/18

Your Family Life - Your Family Values

Everyone has things in their life they value. Some people value family and community, others value wealth and having fun. There are no right or wrong answers when it comes to values, they just are. Regardless of what you value, all values adhere to one fundamental truth: the more you align your life’s activities to your values, the happier you will be.

Consider Sue, a successful real estate agent and mother of 2 pre-teen boys. One of Sue’s stated goals was to become the top real estate agent in her region. While she was making good progress towards achieving that goal she still was unhappy; something was missing. Sue began working with a coach to focus on her personal development.

What she discovered was one of her top values was family, not career as she had been assuming. Her conflict quickly became obvious: her children were home in the evenings and on the weekend - peak hours for real estate agents are evenings and weekends. Sue realized she had some choices to make.

So how do your values and goals line up? What are things that you SAY are important to you? Do your actions support those things? Do you feel like there is a disconnect in your life?

Take a few moments to list all of the things that you consider important. Some ideas include family, career, spirituality, life-long learning, having fun, helping others, and the list
goes on. Prioritize you top 3. Now pull out your day planner; are your daily activities supporting those 3 values? What can you do to reorient your life around your values?

Author: Myrtis Smith

Homeschooling A teenager

Homeschooling A teenager

As children start maturing into adults, parents may feel insecure about homeschooling. Many parents then discontinue the homeschooling process and happily hand over the reign to outside
authorities.

But is this really necessary?
Is the strictly compartmentalized education provided in schools a better option?

If social concerns are worrying you, look for interest-oriented associations, clubs and societies. These offer a lot of support for leaders, opportunity for shared experience, and foster a
sense of belonging.

Make up your own group or share this responsibility with someone else. Home education support groups provide fantastic opportunities to meet your child's needs. This
is the best way to develop intelligent, self-motivated, healthy and able young people.

If the growing burden of some of the higher level Math or Science seems to be beyond you, enlist the help of someone who knows more. You can even barter your own services and thus save
some money. With homeschooling becoming more and more popular, support groups will have innumerable resources that help you find the right teacher for your child.

The underlying principle that guides homeschooling is this: any child has the innate capacity to grow, develop and achieve its full potential. All it needs is the right environment and all
the right answers. Be there to provide these and think twice before you turn over this responsibility to a third party.

Author: Valerie Garner

10 tips for Headshot photography for your child

When you've hired a professional photographer to take photos of
your little one, there are a few things you can do to make sure
your child is well-prepared for the experience. As any parent
already knows, sometimes it can be really difficult to get your
child (or children) to stay still long enough to pose for one
picture, let alone dozens. If you follow a few simple rules
though, you'll have happier child, better pictures and plenty of
them!

1: For children under the age of 6, one of the most important
things to do is to make sure they've had a nap before the
photo-shoot. Even if they don't normally sleep during the day,
in this case, make an exception. A tired kid is usually an
impatient and cranky kid. Difficult enough for a parent to deal
with; nearly impossible for a photographer to manage.

2: Feed your child first and have food ready in case they need a
snack during the photo-shoot. For kids of any age (and lots of
adults too), a full stomach makes a lot of difference to
improving a mood and improving the ability to focus for more
than a minute or two.

3: Don't give your kid food or drinks that are proven
hyper-energy boosters... No sugar and no caffeine before or
during the shoot! This means no pop, nothing with ketchup, no
sugary cereals, no cookies and so on. Hyper kids are even more
difficult to photograph than tired or cranky kids.

4: Be sure to explain clearly to your child about the
photo-shoot before you even meet up with your photographer. Tell
them the photographer's name; explain what will be happening and
why the pictures are being taken. Very important to explain, is
that they need to listen to what the photographer is asking them
to do. (Such as how to pose, or to look at the camera or to hold
still, etc.)

5: Never, never, never leave your child unattended with a
photographer, unless it's someone you already know and trust.
Other than the obvious safety reasons, it's just common sense
that a child in a strange or new situation should be accompanied
at all times by a parent or guardian.

6: During the shoot, unless the photographer specifically asks
you to, try not to direct your child too much. Although it's
instinctive that you'll want to, it really is best to let the
photographer be in charge of the situation as much as possible.
Assuming you've hired someone with experience photographing
children, you should be able to relax and trust that they know
what they're doing, and that includes how to direct your child
for the best possible results.

7: Before your shoot, be sure to take a few minutes to let your
child get comfortable being around the photographer before the
camera comes out. Again, an experienced child photographer knows
it's important to establish a rapport with the little ones
before starting the photo-session. Even ten minutes of your
photographer talking to the child - or with very young children,
just getting them used to the sound of a new voice - will make a
big difference in the quality and tone of your child's session.

8: Be sure to give your child a few breaks during the session.
Bring a few of their favourite small toys with you. If you've
booked more than half an hour (most sessions are 60 to 90
minutes at least), then take them for a 5 minute walk halfway
through. If you're somewhere outdoors, let them run and play for
a few minutes. If you're in your home, let them play in their
room or in your yard for a short while. A good child
photographer not only won't mind, they'll encourage you to do
this. Again, a happy child is much easier to take pictures of
than an unhappy one.

9: A simple thing but sometimes an overlooked one, is to be sure
your child has gone to the washroom right before the shoot. And
if they haven't, then be sure to take at least one washroom
break - even if your child doesnt ask for one - during your
session. Many children are too shy to ask to go to the bathroom
if they're around a stranger or in a strange situation. If your
child is still in diapers, make sure they're clean and dry at
all times during the shoot. If they need a diaper change, don't
hesitate to take the time. Child photographers know to expect
this, so don't worry about taking the time to do it.

10: If, despite all your best efforts, your child is in no mood
for a photo-shoot and is fussy, or crying non-stop or just won't
be still or calm, don't try to force the situation. Reschedule.
Your photographer will still need to be compensated for their
time, even if they can't take the photos you hired them for. The
sooner you decide it's better to reschedule, the less time
you'll need to pay the photographer for being in a situation
where they're unable to do their job. Although it might end up
costing you a bit more than you'd bargained for, if the photos
of your child are important to you, rescheduling with the same
photographer will be worth it.

About the author:
Tamea Burd is a professional photographer based in Vancouver,
BC. Known for the warm, artistic style of her images, Tamea
specializes in wedding photography and portrait photography

Name Your Baby Right and Make Them a Millionaire

What is it in a name that makes it better than another? How can
you assure the name you choose for your baby will bring them
success?

Across cultures and ages, one's given name has been regarded
with great importance. Sarah, the wife of Abraham changed her
name from Sari due to the fact that she was barren and God asked
her to change her name. In Buddhism a person picks a name as a
symbol of his new beginning. What is it in a name that is so
important?

Studies were done in the US that prove that individuals with
popular Anglo-Saxon names usually have more successful lives
than people with minority names. The article "A Roshanda by Any
Other Name?" published in the book "Freakonomics: A Rogue
Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything." (Ekelund Jr.,
Robert B., Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers, 2005) suggests
that minority and exceptional names are guaranteed to make the
person less successful. Studies have also been conducted showing
that whether a person gets called for an interview is influenced
by the name on the resume. Some names are commonly avoided,
while others are chosen often for potential employees.

Each culture or ethnicity has their own view on what it is in a
name that can make it successful. Religious parents often name
their babies after saints, Biblical figures, Islamic figures or
any religion affiliated with them.

What is deemed as success today is closely tied with our
corporate culture. A recent BBC article explores the trend of
naming babies  after trademarks. 

People have actually named their babies Ford, Armani, Del-Monte, and
Channel. According to Professor Evans of Bellevue University in Nebraska, 
these people chose the names they did because they are associated 
with wealth and glamour. 
The second reason is the desire of the parents to give their
child a name which will stand out.

Choosing the right name could give your child a head start in
life, or it can cause a lifetime of scrutiny as one of our
readers stated, "I agree that names should not matter.
Unfortunately, they do." You cannot please everyone. The best
advice is to give your baby a name that has personal
significance and one that you will enjoy calling out seemingly
endless times throughout your life.

Author: Neta Shemesh 

2008/06/17

The Declaration of Your Family

The Declaration of Your Family

Why only Corporate or state have the declaration? The family must have too.
Maybe its very important, because its related to the family value. Our familly value

Maybe we have lost sight of our own horizon. While a nation of participants turned into a loose collection of spectators, the business morphed into a monster of business. Instead of "In God We Trust", on our money, money is now the god we trust [the love of $money$ having replaced real love].

Why the value not just applied to our family, with our declaration?
Maybe the same, In God We Trust, our declaration to our family. Its not just slogan, but its our family value. Its our principle for the parent, for the children.

Let us change our mind to the better, to something that works, as outlined in our family document, photo, sign, etc. "In God We Trust", The Declaration of Independence, Happy Family etc

It's time for us to re-invent itself before it implodes on the iceberg of materialism and greed.

This is about YOUR family

Our family is important to us. Maybe they are the reason for us to life. We job, we do all the best for our fam. Knowledge for develop the better family may be is your choice, for the new better family, not just like ordinary.